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Seven Surprises I’m Grateful For After Ten Years Of Freelancing

November 26, 2015 by jennifer mcgahan Leave a Comment

Seven Surprises I’m Grateful For After Ten Years Of Freelancing
freelancing surprisesWhen I first realized I could have and grow a business from the family’s only computer, I spent all my “extra” time building a website for my arts and crafts business, and then writing a blog to write and showcase my work and writing I was doing for others at the time.

My website was essentially a “display case” for my work, which was fine for lead gen, but I still also had to do the work — making the art and writing the copy or articles for e-zines, magazines, local small businesses, and the people who hired me on elance.

On top of that, I was out there pitching the work in person — setting up a tent at holiday art shows, traveling to art retreats and drumming the pavement for local work. Not to mention personally bidding on lots of odd writing jobs and losing half of them to other wirters… Yes, it was a lot of hustling!

I was — and still am — a stay-at-home mom. If you’ve ever had tiny children you know any sort of regularity is impossible when kids are small. To everyone else, the stuff I was doing, making and building looked more like a hobby, especially since I wasn’t making much money doing it. If I had to describe my work-life “balance” back then it was like trying to staple jelly to a wall!

Ten years later, we’re still going through some challenging times with some “special needs” older teenagers, and life is good, given all its twists and turns.

But as a small business owner I’ve turned a corner, and that’s what I want to share with you.

I have the greatest respect for people with a business mindset and a big dream. People who are focused on building a business from home, even when it seems like not another living soul believes in them.

But I’d be lying if I told you I didn’t think gainful employment would be cool sometimes. Even though I know it doesn’t really work like this, I still fantasize about it: I’d clock in and perform some enjoyable, assigned task with supportive and appreciative coworkers for X number of hours, with the certainty that I was going to get paid X amount at the end of the week! (Oddly, I’m usually picturing stocking produce when I imagine a job other than writing… it looks like fun.)

stress over time

It’s a mindset. A go-to job would never work for me because I made a choice, at least for now. I’m an entrepreneur-freelancer who chooses to work from home. I have a full, but unusual schedule. I can’t expect anyone else to live around it, either, especially when things get a little crazy around here.

But do I work hard? Of course. Do I place high demands on my work and productivity? You bet.

And that’s a typical entrepreneur-freelancer’s mindset for you. Helping folks create relevant content, and putting effort into marketing efforts is how I grow my business. It’s essential to filling any freelancer’s funnel.

For personal and financial reasons, a lot of folks are adopting a similar work habit. Freelancing and self-employment are not too far out of the norm.

Last year, self-employed workers made up 10% of the overall workforce. According to the US Bureau of Labor Statistics, that’s 15 Million people!

entrepreneur, freelancerWe’re a growing population, that’s a given. In order to support my fellow freelancers, self-employed solopreneurs and entrepreneurs, I’ve been assessing the changes in the last decade, and wanted to share my experience.

After ten years freelancing and working for myself, what’s changed and what’s stayed the same?

1. The more experience you have, the better you’re able to vet projects before you take them. I still hustle for jobs, but now I’m better at predicting which jobs wouldn’t be a good fit so I don’t take them or even bid on them at all. I used to spend hours on the phone with “prospects” who would ask hundreds of questions about marketing strategy, in effect getting valuable consulting for free. Then I’d spend half a day putting together a proposal based on their specific business and goals. Many times I would never even get a response when I followed up. Not cool, but it happens to new freelancers all the time.

2. Business details no longer consume time and drain energy. I still spend a fair amount of time working IN my business, rather than ON my business (the cardinal sin of entrepreneurship), but I’m gradually getting to the point where my business doesn’t drag me down. I can get on top of it and see where I’m truly helpful, and where I need to get help from others. I get to spend more time doing what I’m good at because there’s a bit of infrastructure in place, finally.

my team connects3. The name My Team Connects is a name we gave the company when a former partner and I had in mind a SAS that helped sales teams collaborate via email. I like to think it’s still a name that works. Three reasons:

  1. I’m building a team via a network marketing company I believe in, separate but complementary to my writing business.
  2. As a writer and marketing consultant, I get to help other freelancers and businesses grow. When the energy is great, I feel like I’m part of a team, albeit a revolving team.
  3. I feel a connection to my professional and personal team of people on whom I rely to get me through the days. If we didn’t have a good connection working together, it wouldn’t be much fun, so I’m grateful for that.

4. My confidence underwent an adjustment. I’m not exactly sure “confidence” is the right word, because it sounds prideful, when what I mean is that I’m more aware and willing to admit what I can’t do, instead of pretending that I’m something I’m not. The word Confidence has evolved to mean “Less bravado, more kindness.”

5. Success doesn’t mean building an empire. I used to think that if I didn’t have an Inc. Fortune 5000 Small Business Award hanging on my wall someday, nothing I did would count. Success these days is more about choices, freedom, and giving back.

6. Trust your talent and skill. Listen, I’m a big believer in coaches and teachers, but there’s a moment you realize that their way isn’t always the best way for you. For several years, I spent lots of money and time taking courses on how to be a better writer, and comparing my writing with others’ writing. I mistrusted the words I penned, even though I’ve been writing almost daily since I was 11 years old; and while I know there are better writers, I didn’t allow myself to trust my voice. I’m getting better about that.

7. I also bought into what seems to be the inspirational speakers’ mantra that invariably goes something like this: “I was living in my car; I was such a failure, my mother didn’t even claim me; but now I’m over all that stuff that was holding me back. So follow exactly what I do and you’ll be a raving success just like me.” I would wear myself out readjusting my thoughts to someone who seemed like they had it all together, and taking to heart the voices and opinions of others who knew nothing about me. Weird, I know, but tuning out all that “inspiration” is a sign of growth. For me, at least.

Today, not only do I detect a trace of desperation in some of those voices (which makes me sad), but the message also makes me uneasy because I look around and see leaders with quiet confidence whose kingdoms are every bit as great. You have to learn to trust yourself and your own story.

happy home businessIf I can share the dream of building a business from home while being happy at home, then I know I’ll be doing my best work here. The things that have helped me build a writing business helping people sell millions of dollars in products and services, are things I can share with you, too.

My blog is a course in itself, where you can get hundreds of posts I’ve written over the years about copywriting and email marketing . You also have access to some of the information products I’ve created to add value for my small business clients.

I’m adding to this content library weekly, and working on organizing it into categories so that it’s easier to find relevant topics. Meanwhile, please enjoy what’s here and let me know if there’s something you’d like me to cover from a work-from-home standpoint, a business-building standpoint, or a copywriting standpoint.

A good place to start is with the Lucky Deck of content creation tips. Most people have a natural voice when it comes to their expertise, but they just don’t know how to tell the story. These help with that.

Then, you need the copywriting part. When you learn to infuse your content with specific calls to action, then your social media and blog, etc. really start to bring in the people who will buy products and services from you. This is how you transform your communication into writing and speaking that closes sales.

communityYou really can’t build a business without it, so if you have 21 minutes today, I invite you to get the pointers for writing and speaking these words that sell. They’re my best 21 tips in short 60-second videos and I think you’ll like them a lot!

By the way, did I mention that all this content is free! Just register for the content library membership here to get started.

 

 

Filed Under: Freelancing Tagged With: build business from home, building a business, business success, copywriting, entrepreneur qualities, freelance writing, freelance writing from home, freelancing, freelancing vs. job, home business, small business, solopreneur, teamwork at home, work from home, writing

The Tragic Trait of Entrepreneurs

October 31, 2013 by jennifer mcgahan Leave a Comment

Vampires are pitiful creatures. Lost souls, floating between earth and the afterlife, no heaven, no hell.  They can’t live a powerful story because without an end, the beginning and middle parts bear no relevance.

The beauty of this mortal coil.

Think of it. The drudgery of immortality would suck the mojo out of even the stoutest personality. You’d never convincingly cry, “This is it! Now or never!” but only endure the slow, monotonous march through time everlasting. I’d take up napping, too.

Of course there are the lesser consequences of vampire existence, more annoying and creepy than dangerous. That bit about not casting a shadow, or being able to enter a home without the owner’s invitation. Awkward! 

However one particular vampire trait plagues fleshy humanity, too. 

The inability to see your reflection. 

That one is truly scary because it’s one we humans understand.

Not literally of course.  If a vampire lives today, the “selfie” trend would negate any inconvenience. Need to check your make-up? Post a picture to Instagram and see if your friends approve. Want to change your hairstyle? There’s an app for that. 

No, I’m talking about the near tragic flaw of most entrepreneurs: not being able to see yourself for who you really are.

Nothing will suck the life out of you and throw you off course more than this one painful trait. And yet it’s oh-so-common.

  • Why is it so easy to see the speck in someone else’s eye than the plank in your own?
  • Why do so many people find it easy to do for others what they can’t do for themselves?
  • Why do so many professionals end up teaching what they themselves most need to learn?
  • Why are we so easily see the gifts of others but fail seeing our own? It’s that reflection-averse ego that gets in the way.

If you’re lucky, you have a friend or loved one who will remind you of what you can’t see: your value, your goodness, relevance, beauty and folly. And a really good friend will gently point out your weak links, too and nudge you toward your better nature. 

It is possible to get a good objective look at yourself? It takes some work and a little discomfort (sometimes genuine pain), but the results are worth it. There are only two ways…

 

How Successful Entrepreneurs See Themselves More Clearly

View yourself through others: 

Join a Mastermind Group. A mastermind group is a small group of like minds with a common objective, to challenge each other to set goals and grow. When you surround yourself with people who are focused on improving some particular aspect of themselves in business, you’ll find that you can’t help but address the complete picture of your life. Your spiritual, social, professional, and physical reality is brought to light.  In learning to ask questions of others in the group, you also develop a good sense of where your value lies. You also reveal your own myopic  tendencies and gain insight into other alternative ways of acting and thinking.

Get in the habit of asking difficult questions of yourself and others. Dig deep into subjects and people who interest you (and even those that don’t. You’ll not only get invited to more parties and improve others’ opinion of you; you’ll develop your critical thinking about ideas you wouldn’t normally encounter. Don’t ask questions just for conversation’s sake. try to gain real understanding. If you push through, what you find on the other side often says more about you than the line of reasoning by which you pursued it.

For example, you may discover after thinking and sharing ideas, that you have rather strong opinions about matters you never considered before. Or your eyes may open to a tenet that you assumed was part and parcel of who you are, turns out to disconnect on a fundamental level.

Read a lot.

View yourself by turning in: 

Keep a journal. Your thoughtful consideration of your life, feelings, goals and activities, recorded over time, allow you to see some repetitive themes running rampant! This clarity may suggest you tweak and monitor what you see about yourself. But there’s a catch.

Recognize truth when you get glimpses of your real self, but don’t get too attached to the picture of yourself. Your story is continually unfolding. It will change as your circumstances change. Even your beliefs and values will evolve.

Don’t be afraid of failing. Fear of failure may be the most disastrous feature of an entrepreneur who can’t see herself clearly. How can this be? When they hear the word “Entrepreneur,” many people envision the intrepid, self motivated leader who builds businesses with confidence. But the flip side of this “success at any cost” mindset is that in a lot of these highly energetic business people see failure as a setback. Failure is simply not a possibility.

True optimists, however, see no distinct line between success and failure. Failure propels them forward by allowing them to course correct as they go. Failure is simply “the way.“ Successful entrepreneurs go with the flow of failure.  They accept and even embrace failure because in failure there is freedom. Not perfect? Great! Dig deeper. Push on.

Discernment. There will be thousands of causes, questions and ideas that you have no more than topical interest in. Accept that you will skate the surface of those things and move on. For example, you may understand the basics of calculus, but have no interest in thinking deeply about them. Although there are many fields that use calculus concepts to describe phenomena, it’s just not how your mind frames and solves problems. Appreciation and understanding are not the same as really internalizing what’s important to you. Give those ideas a nod and pursue your the ones that resonate with you.

This can be difficult for someone who loves to learn. The other day I encountered an article about big brands using Twitter. While interesting to me, I had to admit that taking ten minutes to read an article about big brands — when my copywriting and content creation service is geared toward entrepreneurs and smaller brands — was probably not a good use of my time and focus. By leaving the article unread I caught a clearer glimpse of who I am and how others see me.

 

“The unexamined life is not worth living.”

~Socrates 

Entrepreneurs are prone to examining their beliefs and goals because the same self-motivation required to start a business and run it successfully, moves deeply into personal territory. For many entrepreneurs, this reflection can’t be helped. 

But it’s easy to get so busy with your work that you assume you’re the same type of entrepreneurial person as that guy over there, or that successful woman you met recently. In haste, we assume an idea of who we are, while our true appearance and gifts don’t correspond to some altered version of reality we’re chasing.

Remember the vampire. He probably never stops and glances in a pane of glass because it holds no interest for him. He lacks substance, can’t even cast a shadow with his form. He is a whiff of a person because he can’t see his own reflection. He must rely on his senses and someone else’s version of reality.

We consider the undead on Halloween because it’s fun to imagine being monsters. It’s the one day each year to laugh at death and other things that scare us.

Behind the fun, though, are some serious questions that cut to the heart of our fears. The cruelest of human flaws is also one of the most common — never seeing our own face in the mirror.

Entrepreneurs, unlike vampires, are grounded. Gravity, light, weight, a finite but unknown number of years – all give our lives meaning and value. Spend at least a little time every day really seeing your reflection.

Filed Under: Freelancing, Inspiration Tagged With: business success, content, copywriting, critical thinking, entrepreneur qualities, entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs mastermind group, fear of failure, goals, Halloween, Jen McGahan, journaling, keep a journal, mastermind group, MyTeamConnects, Napolean Hill, self examination, self reflection, Socrates, success in business, vampires

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