What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?
Wait, let me guess…. um, vanilla!
How did I know that? Because most people prefer vanilla over any other flavor. Don’t worry, it doesn’t mean you’re boring.Vanilla’s just popular.
Let’s say you’re in the vanilla ice cream business. You’re the entrepreneur of ice creamy goodness. The brains behind the bean. Congratulations, you have a large share of the market!
Except it’s too large. And there are so many other purveyors of vanilla ice cream. How do you corner your particular niche of your vanilla-loving market? How do you market your product so you stand out in a vanilla world?
Close your eyes and be your customer for a moment. What do they remember about you vs. your competition? Which juicy part of their senses or psyche do you nudge?
You’ve got to add something to stand out.
Or, whittle it down to bare bones and stand out.
No matter what business you’re in, chances are, there’s someone selling something similar (say that five times fast), so you have to stand out to get people to notice what you do.
You’ll also have more fun marketing if you distinguish yourself from everyone else.
For example, if it’s vanilla ice cream you’re serving…
- Serve it quickest.
- Serve it coldest.
- Serve it softest.
- Serve it hardest.
- Pump up the fat content.
- Make it ulta-convenient.
- Make it low cal.
- Serve it in an unusual container.
- Serve it with a smile or it’s free.
- Serve it with guarantee.
- Serve it with a thought-for-the-day.
- Serve it with a compliment.
- Serve it with pie (and I’ll be there).
- Serve it upside down.
- Serve it some way, somehow, with something, anything, to earn a special place in your customer’s heart.
You’ll sell a lot of ice cream cones if you’re not “just” vanilla… but that special brand of vanilla.
Now think about your business and scoop out a niche for yourself. Go ahead and serve up something really cool and different.
Do you practice your craft in a weird way?
Hold opinions that swerve from the mainstream?
Devote more ___ to your ____?
OK, let’s say it differently: Anything quirky about your methods, your experience, or your customers?
That’s what you want to tell your readers and potential customers all about! With all the choices in the market, you want your customers to know you for something unique; something jaw-droppingly, crazily unique.
Then, make sure your copywriting and content reflects that.
Avoid just sending news about your latest launch or release. Even coupons, discounts and invitations get old unless you intersperse them with valuable content no one else is sharing. Think of your copy and content like just like serving up another scoop of your best vanilla ice cream. In a world full of content, your customers are the ones who value yours and give you their business — even though they can get vanilla anywhere!
Your scoop of content melts into that visceral corner of their brain where emotions stir… people get hooked and come back for more.
Need a hand identifying how you are “YOU-nique”?
If you’re having trouble discovering what it is that makes you stand out, download this branding self-assessment that will help you figure it out. (By the way, I ask these questions of all my new clients so I can write better content and copy for them. Use them and see for yourself.)

This post is so important to so many small biz folks. Being a real estate agent and landlord can be so vanilla. It is the topping that can save me.
As an agent, my broker always teaches the need to differentiate myself from the 7,000 other agents in the city. And as a landlord there are 10,000 other places a person can live.
For my rentals I have found my niche but as an agent I am still working to brand myself.
Any good ideas on how to stand out for agents?
Thank you
Sam
Thanks, Sam. Well, I know you have a thriving multi-housing business. I would say the same thing to anyone pursuing leads online: brand yourself by differentiating yourself from others. Realtors have the privilege of being local and drumming up business face to face. I suggest that when they go online, be that same person — you, in all your glory and folly. Just embrace who you are and let the personality show through.